Friday, July 31, 2009

BGLH interview with white dad of adopted ethiopian daughter who learned to do her hair


Last week we were all captivated by the images in the Atlanta Journal Constitution of a white dad — Clifton Green — who learned to take care of his adopted Ethiopian daughter's hair. (Click this link for the AJC slideshow: http://projects.ajc.com/gallery/view/living/braids/) I was so amazed that I tracked Clifton down and asked if he would do a BGLH interview. He agreed! Clifton is a professor at Emory University in Atlanta, Georgia. He has shared his personal photos of him and his daughter, Miriam. He did all the styles you see on his baby girl!






The entire family



Clifton: Let me first speak as a white adoptive parent of a black child. We know that love alone is not enough to raise our daughter. She will have experiences as a black person that we can't relate to as white parents, and we need to reach out to the black community to help us raise our daughter into a woman that is proud of her culture and heritage. We live in Atlanta, and we have black friends in our lives and go to a church that is roughly half black, but we didn't anticipate the support we've received from the online community. It's been really nice.

BGLH: First off, we thought it was cute that you were using a fork. I'm assuming it doubled as a comb?
Clifton
: I used to use a fork to make Miriam's parts. The rat tail comb I had at first wasn't very pointy and I was more happy with the fork. I thought it made nice, sharp parts. I have a better rat tail comb now and I've gotten used to it so I've done away with the fork.

BGLH: How often do you do your daughter's hair? And how long does it take?
Clifton
: On average we wash her hair every 10 days, but sometimes it's once a week or every two weeks depending on what we've done that week (like playing in the pool or the sand box). I often re-do the braids or twists during the week depending on how they're looking (smaller braids last longer) .

BGLH: Where/how did you learn how to take care of her hair? Why did you learn to take care of her hair?
Clifton
: We've always had black babysitters, and I loved it when Miriam's hair started getting long enough for our babysitter to braid or twist (Miriam came home at 1 year old with very little hair). Our babysitter moved away and our new sitter wasn't comfortable doing hair, and I missed how nice Miriam's hair looked. My wife and I started doing it but gradually over time it became my thing, at least partially because we also had a baby boy that my wife was breastfeeding. We learned from books like "It's All Good Hair," from other moms, and of course practice which I'm still doing. Our goal has always been to help her fit in among other black girls and to feel good about her hair. I'm not an expert, and we're always open to advice and suggestions :)

BGLH: Emotionally, how was the process of learning to take care of her hair? Was it ever frustrating or discouraged? Or was it a joy?
Clifton
: Learning about hair care and styles has been a joy. Sometimes the doing can be frustrating :) I would say the worst has been my attempt at cornrows. They look like they're two weeks old as soon as I do them, and when I spend an hour or longer on her hair I want it to look perfect. So I haven't tried them for awhile.

BGLH: If you could describe your daughters afro textured hair in three words, what would they be?
Clifton
: Curly, coily, bouncy.

BGLH: I'm assuming you've been around caucasian hair all your life. This may be a kind of silly question, but what to you, is the most striking difference between the texture of your daughters hair, and the hair you were used to?
Clifton
: I would say perhaps the most striking difference is how dry her hair can get. In my experience, white people's hair tends to get oily between washings; with Miriam her hair dries out instead.

BGLH: Do you find anything uniquely beautiful about afro-textured hair?
Clifton
: My favorite is the way it looks with two strand twists. It seems uniquely black and beautiful to me.

BGLH: Do you think the care you take in nurturing your daughter's hair is having an effect on her self image? If so, in what way?
Clifton
: Miriam is 5. Right now I think we're laying the groundwork for when she's older and starts to think about her identity as a woman of color and what that means.

BGLH: And finally, I saw you have a young son. What does he think of his big sister's hair :)
Clifton
: Our non-adopted son is 4, and although we have discussions about skin color (they refer to it as brown skin and yellow skin), we haven't talked much hair specifically. Although he says it's beautiful sometimes, right now I would say he loves Miriam's hair mainly because he gets to watch TV when I fix it. He also likes for Miriam to fix his hair with her barrettes and hair balls, and he'll sit still to let her do that. Our 2 year old son also enjoys Miriam's hair stylings. We're on the wait list to adopt again from Ethiopia (another girl). So I'll have more chances to practice my skills, and hopefully the girls can appreciate each others hair and practice styling on each other as they grow up.

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

questions from a newbie... the transitioner edition

Shari is up in the lab designing a new webpage for BGLH. But she's also trying to figure out a new regimen for her transition from relaxed to natural. Peep her questions and help if you can...(continued from Sunday)



There are a few challenges I run into on a weekly basis. Maybe all of you BGLH readers can lend some insight:

1. My switch to new products is causing acne
For the first time in my life, I am getting acne on my back!!!! NOOO!!! I’m wondering if this is being caused my runoff from my products in the shower, or maybe from my twistouts rubbing against my shoulders and back. I’m also getting pimples along my cheeks and hairline. I think my beloved Oyin Whipped Pudding may be the culprit, but I’m not sure. I think it has a lot of shea butter in it. Have any of you had experiences with shea causing breakouts?

2. I think I’ve been doing my twists and bantu knots too tight
My twists and knots end up coming out really tight…and I’m afraid I may be losing unnecessary hair in the long run because of this. Plus, the tension headaches aren’t fun either.





This is my twists & bantu knot regimen;

· Let hair air dry until damp
· Use Oyin Whipped Pudding for hold
· Cover w/ silk scarf while sleeping
· Let down in the morning

Because of my relaxed ends, when I try to make them looser…my hair unravels during the night. I also tried using little elastics to hold them, but I end up with undesirable crimp marks.

3. I’m starting to think too many wash and goes are doing horrible things to my hair
My hair seems to be getting drier and more frizzy the more I wet it and co-wash.


Shari's wash and go

My wash & go regimen is;

· Co-wash with Trader Joe’s Nourish Spa shampoo in shower under chlorine & hard water reducing shower filter
· Detangle with lots of conditioner
· Wash out
· Oyin honey-hemp conditioner as a leave in
· Oyin shine and define for hold & definition

I usually do a wash and go 2x a week. I try to only use shampoo or a no-poo bar 1-3 times a month. You think that may be too much?

4. My scalp itches ALL the time!
I have tried baking soda, ACV rinses, shampooing more regularly…but my scalp just always feels gross! Have any of you encountered conditioners and styling products being too heavy and suffocating to your scalp? Could I be using too much product?

5. Is there a right way to do a co-wash & ACV rinse?
This may be one of the reasons I’m still having my itchy scalp issue, but I’m not sure. How long should you massage your scalp when co-washing? Is using full strength ACV bad? How long should you leave an ACV rinse on for? Should you do it before or after conditioning?

Monday, July 27, 2009

Monday Style Icon: SugarySnowPea


"Natural hair shouldn't be something that catches people's attention for negative reasons, it should be something normalized in the black community. It's so crazy how accepting yourself for who you are can be so strange to some." ~SugarySnowPea





BGLH: Where do you live? Where you reppin'?
SugarySnowPea
: I live in NYC! To be more specific, I live in Harlem, and I'm extremely proud to say so!

BGLH: Why did you make the decision to go natural?
SugarySnowPea
: Well I decided to go natural upon finding fotki and nappturality.com. After I found all of these beautiful black women rocking un believable heads of natural hair I was very inspired and wanted to find out all about putting an end to using chemicals. I was growing dissatified with flat, boring, straight hair and because I'm not into weaves and what not, wearing them was out of the question, so I decided to try being natural for something new and a much healthier option for my strands.

BGLH: When and how did you transition into natural hair?
SugarySnowPea
: I transitioned for 15 months starting in January of 2007. I tried to wear kinky twists but they only lasted a month. I hated the feeling of fake hair on my head and was afraid I wouldn't be able to keep my hair healthy with it. I basically twisted my own hair and wore faux puffs (meaning I added gel to my new growth and slicked my permed strands up into what appeared to be a straight looking puff and because my hair was longer I tucked the ends under.) I did these two styles plus a couple of braidouts for 15 whole months and MAN did that seem like forever.

BGLH: In what ways has going natural affected your life?
SugarySnowPea
: Being natural does change things. I don't care what anyone says, once you go natural, if you have a natural mind set you are changed. Hair is just hair to some people and to others, their hair is an extension of themselves. Being natural means that you have said "Hey, I like myself for exactly who I am, or at least I like my hair exactly the way it grows out my scalp. I don't have to give into societal norms for what beauty is. Having hair straight and long is NOT the only way to identify myself as beautiful." Everyday as a natural you are going to get attention, you may get stares, so you have to be a strong and confident woman to wear your hair naturally. Hey I live in New York and I still get the "whaaatt?" stares every once and a while, so I think natural hair has almost forced me to feel beautiful without others approval and to love me regardless of what others may think.

BGLH: What are your products and regimen?
SugarySnowPea
: The dreaded products question! Haha! I don't like being asked what products I use because people are usually either disappointed or think I'm straight lying!

In the beginning I was really into reading up on the latest best all natural products to use, but I had to be realistic. I'm a struggling college student and though I may drool over some of the products out there, I just can't afford them. I've found wonderful cheapies that keep my hair thriving.

I co wash my hair at least twice a week and much more frequently if my hair is loose (free of braids, or twisted styles). I deep condition my hair once a week, however if my hair is in a protective style I'll deep condition every two or three weeks. Once a month I clarify my hair (this is the only time I actually use shampoo) and do a protein deep condition, and this is extra important now that my hair is colored. In the winter, protective styles like twist or braids are the easiest styles to manage while in school and during cold weather. In the summer, I usually wear puffs and braidouts the most. No matter what,
I always keep my hair moist, I never let it dry out, all my products including my daily spritz include veggie oil because oil seals in moisture.

Co wash: V05 moisture milk conditioners
Shampoo: Sauve Naturals
Deep Condition: Suave Humetant,veggie oil, and another Sauve Naturals conditioner or a V05 one.
Protein Condition: Lekair
Pomade for twist/braids/braidouts: My own shealoe blended butter
Spritz: fav condish mixed with veggie oil and water
Gel: Any clear or brown gel that is alcohol free. Best for my hair: IC Fantasia, and Softee Protein gel

BGLH: How does your hair express who you are and what's the best thing about being natural?
SugarySnowPea
: Oh my gosh! What a great question! This captures the whole essence of why I adore natural hair so much. No matter what your mood is, you can express that through your natural hair. If I'm feeling pretty reserved and low key, I slick my hair back into a neat tightly coiled puff. If I'm in the mood to be flashy and eyecatching I'll rock a huge braidout or frohawk. If I just don't have the time for out styles I can wear twists for weeks before having to take them down and then rock a beautiful twistout for up to a week. I know that no matter where I go I'm going to be unique. When you rock a relaxed style, it's hard to be different fromt the crowd, or special. WIth natural hair, you're going to stand out because no natural head is alike to another.

BGLH: Anything else you want to add?
SugarySnowPea
: If you're thinking about being natural, I say just do it! If you don't like it, if it doesn't suit your personality, you can always go back. I think if every relaxed, texturized or frequently straightening woman out there would give natural hair a chance and stop feeding into Beyonce and Tyra's next fad they would find a whole new strength they never even knew they had; one thing is for sure, we'd have many more naturals than we do today.

Natural hair shouldn't be something that catches people's attention for negative reasons, it should be something normalized in the black community. It's so crazy how accepting yourself for who you are can be so strange to some. What should be strange is how overwhelmingly people, not just African American, try to change themselves to emulate characteristics that are from some other ethnic background. If it's not for you, it's not for you and that's totally fine, but don't knock the women who have the courage to make the change for themselves.

For more of SugarySnowPea, check out her fotki page: http://members.fotki.com/sugarysnowpea/about/.
You can also find her complete hair coloring regimen here: http://journals.fotki.com/sugarysnowpea/the-color-chronicles/

Sunday, July 26, 2009

sunday retrospective: letting go of long hair during the transition

~by Shari (BGLH's graphic designer)






I think I got my last relaxer around November or December of 2008. It wasn’t really a conscious decision on my part…one day, I just decided I didn’t need a touch-up. Then a week passed, then several weeks, then months…and here I am now with two completely different hair textures sitting on top of my head.

And frankly…I’m a little scared.

It was only recently that I discovered a thing called transitioning even existed. It just never even occurred to me. It sounds crazy, yes I know. Even before I got my relaxer at around age 13/14…I never thought of my hair as natural, but instead unmanageable.

So these past few months have been quite an experience for me. Mostly a good one. Going natural is the sh*t! This is one of those things I want to kick myself for not doing sooner. I love the obvious things like not caring if my hair gets wet or not having to worry about my hair kinking up in humid weather…but mostly I love the freedom.

Transitioning seems to be working out for me so far…but I’m starting to get that big chop itch. And here’s where the fear comes in. I have had medium to long hair my entire life and I don’t know if I’m ready for such a drastic change. I have at times in my life been told my hair is my beauty…and throughout the years, I recall several men telling me that under no circumstances should I cut my hair. I know both of these things are not really true, but they still exist as a nagging reminder of the negativity I may possibly encounter.

The future of my hair is a very big question mark for me. I guess I’m just going to go with the flow and figure things out as I go…

Stayed tuned Wednesday when Shari talks about her challenges in figuring out a transitioning regimen.

Saturday, July 25, 2009

preview of monday style icon: sugarysnowpea


We have another Monday Style Icon with a TON of pics, so I'm going to start posting them now. Stay tuned for the full interview Monday.





Friday, July 24, 2009

solange is bald... not sure why i should care, but let's discuss it anyway


Solange sporting her big chop


***Update! Shari found this on Solange's twitter page. Solange speaks of her big chop.***

"listen. if. i. wanted. to. make. a. statement. i. would. have. twitpic’d. photo shoot. ect. i. was. simply. taking. my. son. to. school. stupid. paps. took. pic. ive. had. my. hair. cut. like. this. for. two. weeks. i. was. NOT. inspired. by anyone. but. my. self. i. have. done. this. twice. in. my. life. i. was 16. i was 18. did. not care about your opinion. then. dont. care. now. dont. need. your. attention. or. your. co-sign. dont. want. a. edge. up. or a perm. because. im not trying. to make this “a style” or a statement. i. just. wanted. to. be. free. from. the. bondage. that. black. women sometimes. put. on. themselves. with. hair. this. phase. of. my. life. i. want to spend . the time. the energy. and the money. on something else. not in the hair salon. im. not. mad. at . all of you. that have made your opinions known. and have sent negative. energy. my way. i expected this of you. you. have. the right to have. an opinion. so. do. i."


Okay, let me preface this by saying that I was TOTALLY going to ignore the fact that Solange chopped off her hair and is now technically natural.

Black women do 'big chops' all the time and, in my experience as a natural hair blogger, style inspiration for naturals typically does NOT come from the weave-obsessed celebrity culture. It comes from everyday women.

BUT, I got this email this morning, and it put an interesting twist on the situation. So here goes:

Hey BGLH!!

I would like to begin this email with some praise to you! Your blog is
wonderful! It's very thought provoking and it's exactly the type of
forum that's needed for women interested in issues involving hair in
society.

The reason why I'm writing you today is to ask if you could post your
thoughts on Solange Knowles' latest hair style. If you haven't seen
pictures yet, she shaved it almost bald. I've been reading a few
gossip blogs and the comments are horrendous! People hate the
hairstyle on Solange but they love it on Amber Rose, Kanye's girlfriend. Why is that? Is it because Amber has straight hair or because Amber is blonde?


Amber Rose with Kanye West

I think Solange looks cute and the style distinguishes her
from her sister, who I also believe is natural under the lacefronts.
What do you think?

Thanks so much!

Best,
Amanda

Okay, well before I turn it over to you guys to discuss; I have to say that I don't think people have been that kind to Amber either. When I am on gossip blogs a lot of people refer to her as (excuse this language) 'that bald-headed stripper'... so I don't feel Amber and Solange are being treated any differently.

I think they have both gone against a traditional notion of style/beauty and are facing resistance from popular culture.

What I personally find interesting is the texture of Solange's hair. From the pictures it appears to be somewhat kinky.

J, Shari and I were discussing the other day an interview Beyonce (Solange's sister) did several years back. Apparently she tried to publicly transition into natural hair (without weave/extensions) but was surprised at 'how coarse' her texture was and thus went the lacefront weave route.

I applaud Solange for not being ashamed to showcase her texture. But again, I've profiled dozens of everyday women who've done the exact same thing. So I'm kind of reserved in giving Solange wild applause.

But that's just me... what are your thoughts?

Thursday, July 23, 2009

real love: white father of adopted ethiopian girl learns to do her hair... and it looks on point!


A BGLH reader sent this to me (thanks Miss Bush!) The complete slideshow is at the Atlanta Journal Constitution: http://projects.ajc.com/gallery/view/living/braids/
The father is a professor at Emory University.
A few more snippets:


Wednesday, July 22, 2009

Rock Solid Regimen: Tocktick


"I think that natural hair is beautiful and unique. I think it's the most versatile hair type there is." ~tocktick




BGLH: Where do you live?
Tocktick:
London

BGLH: Why did you make the decision to go natural and when and how did you transition into natural hair?
Tocktick:
To be frank, my relaxed hair was a really sorry mess. At the time when I transitioned, my hair was broken off, dry and see-through. That wasn't the first time my hair had been in that state in my life and I finally decided I'd had enough and I knew I could not go back to relaxing. I knew very little about the transition process, so all I did was keep my hair in braids until I big chopped. Towards the end of my journey, I found forums and fotki. My last relaxer was in August 2006 and I big chopped in Feburary 2007.

BGLH: How is your hair received at work/school?
Tocktick:
I have just finished school. I went to a majority white school and it was accepted without question. In fact, it got a lot of positive attention. When I interned, my hair was of absolutely no concern to my employers. However, my field is one where people roll into work looking like skateboarders. It's very relaxed in terms of clothing, tattoos, hair, piercings etc.

BGLH: You put art up on your fotki page. Did you create it? Tell us a little bit about that.
Tocktick:
Yes, I create all of the digital art work and photography on my website. I went to school for interactive design and being creative is a large part of my life. I love to create digital art in my spare time and I also dabble in film and motion graphics. I can't imagine entering a profession that wouldn't allow me an outlet for my creativity.

Some of Tocktick's art





BGLH: How does your hair express who you are?
Tocktick:
Unlike when I had damaged relaxed hair, I can now experiment with my hair and I think natural, healthy hair gives me better control of the kind of image I want to have. I can go from carefree to sophisticated and from professional to regal. I was severely limited when I had relaxed hair.

BGLH: Did it take a while for your hair to grow out?
Tocktick:
My hair always grows slow in my opinion! However, my hair reached armpit length in about 2 years. I've just recently cut 2-3 inches but I believe I'll be back at arm pit length by the end of the year and will hopefully be at my goal of waist length 1.5 years after that (it helps that I'm short).

BGLH: What are your products and regimen?
Tocktick:
Once a week, I wash my hair and apply conditioner and castor oil afterward. On the other days of the week, I still apply the latter two products to my hair after rinsing my hair with water. I usually leave a little conditioner in my hair afterward.

I deep condition about once every two weeks but if my hair needs extra care (usually during winter weather) I step it up to once or even twice a week.

I henna every 4-6 months because it leaves my hair stronger and softer. I always deep condition afterwards.

My products:
Sulfar 8 shampoo
Any generic conditioner for dry/damaged hair since these are usually the creamiest
Castor oil
Dark & Lovely cholesterol deep conditioner
Henna (body-art quality)


BGLH: What's the best thing about being natural?
Tocktick:

* Knowing that with proper hair care practices, I can achieve lengths I couldn't before. I know some relaxed women can achieve the same thing but the relaxer was detrimental to the health of my hair.
* Versatility
* Big afros
* Having a head of healthy hair that has been untouched by chemicals after being led to believe it was impossible.
* My texture (I love my coils and the thickness)

I think that natural hair is beautiful and unique. I think it's the most versatile hair type there is. There is still a lot of ignorance surrounding it but I think that the growing support for natural hair is opening many eyes to how great it can be.

For more of Tocktick go to her Fotki page: http://public.fotki.com/tocktick/

question for J: why are antifungal, antibacterial and anti-inflammatory elements so good for hair?

J: BGLH's resident haircare expert

Hey guys, I (Leila) submitted this question to J out of my own curiosity:

"So, I've been thinking about this for a while:
A lot of things that are good for hair: aloe vera gel, castor oil, bentonite clay, chamomile, have antifungal, antibacterial and anti-inflammatory properties. Why is that? I mean, how do those properties benefit the hair?"


J's response:
The properties of these herbs are primarily focused for use to promote a healthy scalp. A healthy scalp leads to healthy hair. If your scalp is suffering, this cannot translate to healthy hair. I'm sure you've heard of skin/scalp issues like dandruff and eczema leading to hair loss. As the hair pushes through the follicle, it gets entangled in the excess sebum or the parasitic nature of a fungus (if that is the root of the dandruff). You can imagine that realized length retention may even be slowed down by this. The natural oils cannot properly travel down the hair shaft if they are blocked by excess sebum or fungi.

The bentonite clay adsorbs toxins attracting it to its surface, then absorbs them to sweep them away. The removal of these toxins allows your scalp to "breathe" better (it does the same thing in the body). Castor oil is an anti-toxin which is why it works well on the bowels; it increases muscle contractions along the intestinal wall. But because it is habit forming, you should not use it often. Sometimes people are constipated for a health reason. Using laxatives just masks the problem. Stick to using it in the hair where it can seal in moisture! Besides the properties that you already mentioned, aloe vera and chamomile have hydrating properties that can benefit the hair itself. We could all use a little hydration! besides who wouldn't want a calm, soothed scalp!

~j~

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Monday Style Icon: Claire of The Fashion Bomb


I am very happy to feature Claire Sulmers from the Fashion Bomb as a Monday Style Icon on BGLH. The Fashion Bomb is an award-winning blog that shines a spotlight on urban fashion which is often overlooked in mainstream media.

Since its inception in August 2006, The Fashion Bomb has been named Blog to Watch by Women’s Wear Daily, Blog of the Moment by Teen Vogue, and has been featured in Upscale and Uptown magazines. Newspapers such as New York Metro have also caught The Fashion Bomb bug, as have college newspapers, such as Howard University’s Hilltop and Harvard University’s Crimson. A weekly contributor to AOL Black Voices, Claire has been tapped as a style expert for the Wall Street Journal and the New York Post. The Fashion Bomb was also nominated Best Fashion & Style Blog and Blog of the Year in the 2008 Black Weblog Awards.

Claire is a journalist and Harvard graduate with Haitian and Bahamian roots. I asked her about her hair, her take on the fashion world and her experience as a blogger.


Claire with various celebrities, including designer Marc Jacobs


Claire with singer Monica


Claire with singer Usher




On hair...
BGLH: Why did you decide to go natural?
Claire:
Braids were always my style of choice in my younger years. I had one disastrous run in with a perm in the 7th grade and it was just not working! Fly aways, gel--it wasn't flattering. My mom didn't really know what to do with my hair, so we started with braids (weave braided into my natural hair). Around sophomore year in college, I was tired of not being able to find hairdressers that worked, tired of taking out old hair and replacing it with new, tired of braids falling out (very embarrassing!). I figured I could have the same look of braids with my own hair and decided to start with locks in 2001. It was tough going from full, long braids to short tiny twists, but the style got better after a few months. My choice of natural hair surely also had to do with my concentration in African American studies and wanting to be proud of my hair and my race. Lastly, I wanted to be a girl who didn't need enhancements or anything extra to look fly.

BGLH: When and how did you transition into natural hair?
Claire:
It was in 2001. I went to a natural hair salon in Boston and the hairdresser partitioned my hair into little coils. It took a while of not washing and meticulous care to get it to lock. I remember I was a counselor at a summer camp for 10-14 year olds in Dorchester at the time. When I initially got the style, I wasn't 100% confident with my look, so I came in with a head scarf. Of course the kids wanted to see what was going on underneath, but I didn't want to show them. They persisted and, during lunch, one of the bad little boys actually tried to rip my scarf off my head!

Then the class I taught, a group of about 14 girls, teased me, saying I looked "Like an African" (this was supposed to be an insult which is sad if you think about the messages younger black children receive). Another time a guy my age approached our group and talked to us for a bit, but then went on his way. One of the little girls said, "If you had your old braids, he would've asked for your phone number." It was crazy dealing with the transition around a bunch of immature kids, but let me tell ya, my skin got thick pretty quickly!

The whole situation underlined, to me, that most black women grow up thinking their natural hair is not ideal, and are encouraged to wear weaves or straight hair so that they'll look attractive. Obviously that's a lie, but it's a deeply entrenched message we're fed from a very young age.

BGLH: Why did you choose to lock?
Claire:
I'm very low maintenance and it seemed like an easy style to care for. Though I have this 'fashionista' reputation, I can get ready in 30 minutes. I also never liked sitting around in a beauty salon or depending on anyone else for my look.

BGLH: How does your natural hair express who you are?
Claire:
My whole life goal when it comes to blogging and writing is to highlight the intrinsic beauty of black women. In my personal life, I feel that if I wear a weave, for example, that's saying that I don't think that who I am is beautiful enough to show the world. So my hair expresses my belief in the beauty of my natural hair, even if the mainstream tries to tell us everyday that our hair isn't 'good enough.'

BGLH: Describe your regimen. What products do you use?
Claire:
I've been told I should wash my hair every two weeks, but I work out a lot, so I prefer to wash it once a week. I'm not sure if I'm supposed to do this, but I generally get lots of conditioner, like Jane Carter Solution Nutrient Replenishing Conditioner, and just put it in my hair while it's a little damp and have it sit for a couple hours under a shower cap. Then I wash my hair with Creme of Nature Kiwi & Citrus Ultra Moisturizing Shampoo.

I moisturize with Olive Oil (like Olive Oil you get from the supermarket), then also use Carol's Daughter Hair Milk and a small amount of Glycerin. I twist my Hair with Jamaican Mango & Lime Lock Gro. Then I braid or twist it up into bumps. When it is set, I moisturize with Organic Root Stimulator Olive Oil Moistruzing Lotion, Carol's Daughter Black Vanilla Leave In Conditioner, or Jane Carter Solution Revitalizing Leave in Conditioner. I also use a mixture of Glycerin with water in a spray bottle to moisturize. I braid it up almost every night with a scarf.

BGLH: As a fashionista, how does your hair complement your style? And from a fashion perspective, what are the benefits of natural hair?
Claire:
Fashion is all about having a unique style and look, so my hair asserts my personality as well as my style. In fashion, you'll see people with blue hair, buzz cuts, shaved sides, designs...my personal style is pretty conservative, but my dreads kind of add a little funk (especially when they're a tad on the wild side).

I'm not sure if there are benefits of natural hair from a fashion perspective. Fashion, like any other industry, is pretty slow to come over to the natural hair movement; there is still a bit of a stigma attached to dreads (people think you're a rasta, that you smoke weed, that you're some sort of granola type who only wears hemp--I'm none of the above). Then again in fashion everything goes, so in some ways it's totally cool and acceptable.

On fashion
BGLH: Did you have a background in fashion before starting The Fashion Bomb?
Claire:
I wrote fashion for Real Simple Magazine in New York for 4 years; was a fashion intern at Upscale Magazine. I really took the experiences and knowledge I was gaining at my 10-6 and brought it to blogging. It would have been inappropriate to talk about Beyonce in an article for Real Simple, so I got my celebrity fix and shopping jones taken care of online.

BGLH: What need does your blog fulfill that traditional media does not?
Claire:
We focus on black women and fashion whereas it seems black women don't exist on most fashion blogs OR if they do exist, they're being insulted or lampooned. I read lots of fashion websites, and they tend to report on Amber Rose and Kanye West, for example, but the readers of those blogs say things like "Why won't Kanye go away?!?" "Amber is so tacky!" At the Fashion Bomb we actually appreciate the movements and waves made by trendsetters like Rihanna, Kanye, and Amber. We're all about celebrating our people rather than tearing them down. We're about looking at them as style stars instead of wannabes or nuisances. And generally, we try to keep it positive.

BGLH: You recently moved to Paris. How is it going?
Claire:
I'm teaching English and freelancing until I land my plum job. Paris is absolutely gorgeous and I'm happy I made the move. In New York a fun weekend trip would be to Boston or Connecticut. Now a fun weekend trip is to St. Tropez or Monaco.

I'm holding fast to my dreams and just waiting to see how everything pans out.

BGLH: Your focus is urban fashion; do you think Black women are more heavily asserting their unique expressions of style and beauty?
Claire:
Black women have always been trendsetters. From Salt & Pepa to even Denise Huxtable or TLC, black woman always have b een funky, bold, and brazen. Now I think people are paying more attention to what we've been doing all along. And if it's black women versus other races, I'd say black culture is distinctive and rooted in a very storied history. Black people did 'without' for so long, so now that we can buy things and have incomes, we go for the biggest, boldest, and brightest. Bling Bling was penned by a rapper for a reason. While other races may have been enjoying diamonds for years, we just came to the party. If we can buy diamonds, we want big diamonds. And not just diamond earrings, we want diamond chains, gold teeth, and gold plated everything. I think black people are coming into more money now that historical barriers are being broken down, which might mean even more extroverted style. But I think the need to stand out and look 'polished' has been a part of our culture for a long time.

BGLH: You mention that Black women have always been trendsetters. Why, then, is the fashion industry so hesitant to embrace them?
Claire:
On one side black women set trends, but fashion is a business, and fashion companies are not looking for who is setting trends, but who is buying. There is a pervasive stereotype that minorities don't have as much disposable income as others (though we spend). Since we don't spend, we don't matter--we're ignored and invisible. Why have an ad featuring a woman of color for Louis Vuitton if black women don't buy Louis Vuitton?

The truth is that we spend money (I know I do!). But percentage wise, the black women who will throw down on some Louboutins or Chanel are significantly less than the percentage of other races who would or could do the same. In fashion, as in most industries, the only color that matters is green.

It's also true that multicultural women will buy a luxury brand regardless of the color of the woman in the ad. The perception is that white women would be turned off by a similar ad. This is not scientific, but it's understood to be true. Lastly, white is seen as aspirational, and therefore luxurious, in the minds of most in the world. Not the case for minorities, unfortunately.

BGLH: What are some highlights of your career as a fashion blogger?
Claire:
Going to the Yves Saint Laurent show in Paris; Going to the Zac Posen show and meeting him backstage. Meeting Marc Jacobs at the Takashi Murakami opening gala at the Brooklyn Museum. All of Paris Fashion Week.

BGLH: What are your dreams for the Fashion Bomb?
Claire:
I'd like do a series of e-books, complete a few more celebrity interviews, and just become a bigger, more recognized website. I'd also like to bring Milan, Paris, and New York Fashion Weeks to our ever growing audience of smart, savvy multicultural women.

sunday retrospective: i follow BGLH because...

The majority of people who follow BGLH are young, black women. But I think that our beautiful hair (and the quest for it to be recognized as such) can be shared with everyone. So I'm starting a new series called 'I follow BGLH because...' BGLH readers who are neither young, black nor female tell why they follow the blog.

Beth is 37 and lives in Massachusetts.



Beth with her family (when her hair was long)



BGLH: How did you find "Black Girl with Long Hair?"
Beth:
I think I was doing a search on the internet for photos of curly mohawks and one of Natural-belle's blog photos came up... I started looking at her postings and thought it was cool that it was dedicated to naturally kinky/curly hair. I found your blog in her blog list.

I like reading about other women's feelings and thoughts about their own hair and the political and social issues surrounding naturally curly/kinky hair. I feel less alone with my struggles with my hair. I feel inspired by other women who embrace the curl/kink/frizz/volume of their hair. I am starting to be less afraid of the voluminous power of my own curls ; ) I have always tried so hard to control the curl and frizz and make my hair lay down and be quiet. Now I'm trying to make it stand up and get noticed thanks to yours and other natural hair blogs I have been following.

I also love kinky hair! I have always loved the texture and styles from afros to braids to dreads, etc. I love all the photos of different curly/kinky hairstyles.

BGLH: Tell us about your hair.
Beth:
I like being natural in my appearance, especially my hair. My hair is naturally curly. I relate to some of the issues that other women with kinky/curly hair are dealing with. My hair has been a source of stress my whole life. I got my curly hair from my Dad and my mom has stick straight hair. My mother had no clue how to care for it when I was growing up. She would make me wear curlers to bed (the old school ones that had pointy metal things in them, OUCH!) to try to control my hair.



I would spend an hour every weekend crying while my stepmother yanked the dreads out of my hair that had formed from my mom not taking good care of my hair during the week. She finally just cut it off.

There are tons of hair straightening styling tools and hair products on the market that are aimed at white women. There are all these commercials that show white women with frizzy "unmanageable" hair and how some product or tool can give you smooth, frizz free, straight hair. "Healthy" hair is straight hair according to these commercials... Straight hair is very "in" with white women right now : ( I see a lot more white women with straightened hair than curly hair. Most of the hairstyle tips and spreads in magazines show white women with straight hair or wavy hair... The one white celebrity that pops into my head that has really curly hair naturally that started wearing it straight when she became famous is Nicole Kidman.

BGLH: This blog contains several issues unique to Black women, is this the first time you're hearing them?
Beth:
Yes and no. I have had black female friends with all different types of hair. We never discussed their hair, they just made choices about how to wear their hair and I accepted them as they were. I had a few black female friends in college. I helped one do a relaxer in her hair. I did a big chop (didn't realize that is what it was called back then, lol) on one friend who had been relaxing her hair and wanted to go natural. I only realize now that I have been reading natural hair blogs, what a big deal it was for her to go natural. I had another friend that had natural hair the whole time I knew her. After college I had a biracial friend that got weaves and learned all about weaves :)

I am definitely seeing the world differently since I started reading about the political and social issues surrounding being a black woman with natural hair. I notice natural hair everywhere now! I also notice all the relaxed hair, wigs and weaves more and wish they would all go natural : )

BGLH: Has any particular discussion stuck with you?
Beth:
The one that is still ongoing about natural hair in the Dominican Republic.

You can see more of Beth at her blog http://queenbuv3.blogspot.com/
If you would like to do an 'i follow BGLH because' feature, please email me at contro_versial@hotmail.com

Friday, July 17, 2009

quote to consider: the idolization of beauty?

This quote was written on the blog Racialicious by a commenter called truthpoet.

"However, in an effort towards thinking about solutions, I will leave you with this quote from Toni Morrison:“The concept of physical beauty as a virtue is one of the dumbest, most pernicious and destructive ideas of the western world, and we should have nothing to do with it.” Black is Beautiful is a “white idea turned inside out…Concentrating on whether we are beautiful is a way of measuring worth that is wholly trivial... and preoccupation with it is an irrevocable slavery of the senses.”

unconventional hair/cool cuts: a third of hair shaved off





BGLH: Why did you decide to shave off a third of your hair?
Gina
: i'm a very impulsive person! sometimes too much so! a while back i wanted to completely shave my hair off but everyone said no. this is kind of a compromise.

BGLH: Was it hard to let go of the hair?
Gina
: not really. once i decide to do something i pretty much go with it! i've still got most of my hair and i'm still focused on growing it out healthy and strong. however i did keep the shaved off piece of hair as a memento.

BGLH: How long have you been natural?
Gina
: i've been natural now for 17 months

BGLH: What field do you work in? Are your employers okay with the style?
Gina
: i manage for a high end hair salon in london. it's an eco brand that works with natural products. i can get away with my hair there as it is a creative place plus one of my staff did create the style. but i personally feel i have to pin my hair up and i have noticed i'm wearing my girly clothes so as not to come across hardcore and scary. i've been told it looks high fashion rather than high shock and i guess it's just the way you carry yourself (i don't snarl or growl at clients).

i have had an array of comments from i look like a dj to i look like a lesbian. the look is not for everyone but it's definitely for me.

BGLH: How do you plan to style it now?
Gina
: i've been using bobby pins to style my hair in a kind of retro up do for work and just letting it do its own thing. the shaved part is quite a statement and is a style in itself.

BGLH: What does the new style say about you?
Gina
: this style suites my style, i'm really into indie, punk and vintage rock, but on the other hand i love neo soul and hip hop. i have a dual character so it kind of figures that i'd have dual hair. i'm an artist trapped in a 9-5 job so i have to find ways to be creative. if i could take the pain i'm sure i'd be covered in tatoo's and piercings so to me my hair is just another part of my creative outlet.

BGLH: How long had you been thinking about shaving your hair?
Gina
: i've been eyeing up the style for a few months now, i'm really inspired by kesh. she is so creative and embodies all things unique. she has a british quirkyness that only us brits can pull off.


UK fashion designer, Kesh

http://therealkesh.blogspot.com/


Gina blogs at http://hairspiration.blogspot.com/
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